Accept Hard Truths, Discover Your Self, and Change Your Life
“It’s On Me”
Have you heard of self-loss?
Me neither, not until I was in my 20s, when the concept became my reality.
After a divorce, confronting childhood trauma, and feeling profoundly miserable in a life I had carefully built, one that looked impressive from the outside but left me empty on the inside, I realized something had to change.
Written from both the therapist’s chair and the deeply human seat of personal experience, It’s On Me is a guide to taking ownership of your self, your relationships, and your life.
The book is about learning to reconnect with the parts of you that have been silenced, shattered, or lost along the way. It’s a guide for anyone living on autopilot, stuck in patterns of people-pleasing, self-abandonment, or unsure how to create change.
If you've ever asked yourself:
“Why do I feel disconnected from myself?”
“Why do I keep ending up in the same patterns?”
“Is it okay to want more or different?”
—this book might feel like a mirror.
And maybe, a turning point.
Translated into 19 languages and available worldwide.
What People Are Saying
"If human beings came with a manual, It's On Me would be it.” — Simon Sinek, optimist and New York Times bestselling author of Start with Why and The Infinite Game
"Gently yet firmly guides readers [to] create a more aligned, authentic, and vibrant life." -Nedra Glover Tawwab, New York Times bestselling author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace and Drama Free
"Masterful and provoking... Kuburic has outdone herself with her brilliant guide." —Vienna Pharaon, LMFT, author of The Origins of You
"It's On Me eloquently and brilliantly reconnects us with a life of meaning and empowerment by helping us understand the concept of self-loss. ... Relatable and necessary." — yung pueblo, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Lighter
"[lt's On Me] lights a path that will lead you back to you." — Melissa Urban, New York Times bestselling author of The Book of Boundaries
"Liberating ... Provides much-needed motivation for the emotionally adrift." -Publishers Weekly